I first watched this video because it was linked to a post by my friend Kelly. I resonated with it not so much for the music or for the video, but for the lyrics.
Stop holding your tongue.
Let your words be anything but empty.
Maybe there’s a way out of the cage where you live.
Maybe one of these days you can let the light in.
Show me how big your brave is.
One of my greatest causes in life is to give other people courage. People are afraid of all kinds of things—afraid of their past, afraid of the future, afraid of dying, afraid of being alone, afraid of what others think of them, afraid of failing… it seems like so much of what we do is driven by fear.
And yet “perfect love casts out fear,” and the thing God says to us more than any other is, “Do not be afraid.”
I wonder if we are afraid because we don’t feel like we are loved. Because if you feel like someone loves you, like they will stay no matter what, like they are on your side forever, then all of a sudden it doesn’t matter as much how many times you fail, or that you aren’t as smart or pretty or whatever as someone else is.
But that never should have been the standard to begin with.
You see, part of the reason I want my life to be about inviting people to courage is because I believe with everything I am and have that the whisper of greatness was spoken into every single person who has ever walked this earth; that before the beginning of time one who knew your name before anyone ever uttered it set a light in you that was meant to shine forever.
Too many of us have forgotten that. Too many of us think that courage is dancing in a town square or jumping out of an airplane or zip lining.
No, courage is living your life the way it was meant to be lived. Courage is hearing that whisper and doing what it says. Courage is a lifetime, not one time, which is why for some among us, courage is as simple as getting up this morning. For some, courage is living today because what they really want more than anything is to die. For some, courage is a first or second or third day without the drug or the drink or the person or the job or the life they had imagined. For some, courage is just making it through today.
But courage is also fighting the battles with and for others while we fight our own. It is taking the time to listen or help or encourage. It is realizing that if we are courageous in this moment, then it is not just for ourselves.
Courage looks a little different from everyone.
Courage looks a little different for everyone.
But it always leads to a life of significance.
Mine looks like this: someone reading this will write me a note; it might be right away, it might be months from now, but it will start with something like, “I’m sorry to bother you, but I didn’t know who else to reach out to…” and I will say, “It took a lot of courage for you to reach out like that, and I will help you in whatever way I can…”
So if you are that person, know that my courage is waiting for your courage whenever it is ready.
And whether you are that person or not, I’d like to know what your courage looks like. I’d like to know what you’d do if you were not afraid. I’d like to hear your story of what happens when you exercise courage, and I’d like to see you be that way again and again and again.